Tips when Visiting a Home in Japan

Some things to remember when visiting a Japanese home:

• Remember to respect tradition by removing your shoes before you enter the house.
• Upon removing footwear, align your shoes together and leave them neatly on the provided area, with the tip of the shoe facing the door
• Gifts show some kind of appreciation for your host. No matter how big or small it is, your host will have high regard for you if you bring them gifts.
• Many modern Japanese homes have Western chairs and sofas but sometimes meals are taken the traditional way --- in low tables with cushions. If this should happen, remember that men may sit crossed legged but women are not allowed to do it. Women instead should sit with both legs tucked under them or to one side.
• The raised floor in the alcove display must not be stepped on.  It is considered a family altar. Also, it would be gracious to say something about the displays found in the alcove.