Gift giving

It is customary and even expected at times, in Japanese culture to give gifts. Gift giving is important. When giving gifts, avoid going to the pricey or extravagant side. You must remember that expensive gifts require equally or slightly more expensive gifts in return. Unlike in many western cultures, the giving gifts on birthdays are not a tradition in Japan. The exchange of Christmas presents is also not common. What is common is the giving of gifts in December before the New Year, called Oseibo, and in June before the Obon, called Ochugen. During these two times, many Japanese people present co-workers, friends, and relatives with gifts, commonly food, wine, or a small utensil or tool.

As a sign of appreciation to someone, a Temiyage is usually presented to the person, usually cake, sweets or sake. When someone returns from a long trip, it is expected or him or her to give gifts, or Omiyage, to co-workers, friends and relatives. When receiving unwrapped gifts, it is polite to express profuse appreciation for the gift, whether sincere or not. When receiving a wrapped gift, in formal situations, it is considered impolite to unwrap it as soon as you receive it. In more casual settings, it is normal to ask the giver if the gift may be opened now.